Zen Habits knows how you can pursue your dreams. The advice boils down to the three points below, but is essentially never forget your dreams and know what is holding you back so you can deal with it.
Never give up on living your dream!
1. Become aware. Doubt gets its power mostly because it is in our subconscious, and weâ€™re not aware of the effects it has on us. Instead, we have to bring it to the forefront of our minds. And that means concentrating on our thoughts, and trying to search out those doubts and negative thoughts as they come up. The ones that say, â€œMaybe I canâ€™t do this. Maybe itâ€™s not realistic.â€ If you make a conscious effort to be aware of these doubts, you can catch them and beat them.
2. Squash the doubt. Once youâ€™ve become aware of the doubt, imagine that the doubt is an ugly little bug. Now step on it, and squash it with the bottom of your shoe. Not literally, of course, but in your mind. Exterminate it. Do not let it live and spread!
3. Replace it with something positive. Now that youâ€™ve squashed the doubt, replace it with positive thoughts. It sounds corny, but trust me, this works: think to yourself, â€œI can do this! Others have done it, and so can I! Nothing will stop me.â€ Or something along those lines, appropriate to whatever it is youâ€™re doing.